小和 毕业了
心里无限感慨
回想过去几年 实在不容易
三岁时上了半年幼儿园
学校实在收不了 就退学
后半年在特殊学校上
四岁时觉得他应该在普通幼稚园上课的
找了很多间学校
一听到他的状况都拒绝
我的心简直是痛不欲生到了绝望
直到朋友介绍目前的幼稚园
心里才稍稍释怀
在这间幼稚园的3年生涯里
绝对不是风平浪静的
最严重一次我还必须要致电给同学家长做交代
还有数不清大大小小的状况
还有一些老师没有告知的状况（因为老师还handle的了）
胆战心惊的过了三年
明年 小和要上小一了
虽然找了一间人数不算多的华小
可是我的压力还是随着开学的日子一天天逼近 而越来越大
虽然我是做好准备会常被老师请去学校喝咖啡了
可是我还是控制不了的担心、担心、担心.......
我很怕小和控制不了他的情绪时会去弄伤到别人
我很担心他上课时不能静静坐着而被老师投诉
我很担心老师会视他为眼中钉、捣蛋顽皮的孩子
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太多太多的担心 真的让我很压力 很害怕
老公说 就让他去华小一年看看状况
如果真的不行再转去international school or home school
我很矛盾 真不知该做何选择才是对他好的
该给他尝试？ 还是直接去IS 或 HS就好？！？！
宝贝 你的新旅程 也是你人生中的重要旅程才开始呢
妈妈要怎么做才是对你最好的呢？？
一個旅程的結束，另一個旅程的開始。無法形容的感動，說不出的擔憂。
5 comments:
我家谦是 Dyslexic Child, 今年五岁刚刚被幼儿园退学，学校的回应是他学习能力太差拖慢了其他的学生，学习没办法教他，希望我们另找高校，我的心是难过的很，久久没办法回复，完全没有心情。。。但生活还是要过，马上向公司请了假找学校去。。。
谦学习能力比一般小孩慢，而且很容易忘记，我已经开始帮他找 HomeSchool 了，愿意接纳他的 HS 也没几个，就见了肯接纳类似小孩的 HS,小学我是报了但我看着情况办，因为他完全不懂华语，我不希望孩子进了华小变成了被放牛了的孩子，我们的明白华小的情况，1:40 我很难想象谦如何应付，所以去 HS 较有希望，见了 HS 的主办人为的也是准备自己，开始为一年后的他筹备，尤其是时间因为我是职业妈妈。
以上供参考，其实自己也压力也挣扎了好久，非常了解你的心情。。。
Dear Nana,
I have been your diving reader for long time as my son is also an autistic child.
I face the same worry n tension as you when my son is moving to Standard 1.
But,we must also stay optimistic and confidence with them.They will feel it.
Now, my son is going to finish his Standard 1 class and he cope very well in school with his study and peers.
Wish u all the best!
Eileen
谢谢你们的留言，我想我们的心情都是一样的... 只是在课业上我相信小和是没有问题的，只是情绪行为上，是一大挑战。尤其频频听闻华小的负面消息，更让我担忧不已。
Eileen，好奇你的孩子是在哪里读书你？也是华小吗？
Dear Nana,
My son is studying in mainstream chinese school. I am staying in Perlis and there are 2 chinese school near to my house.
Before my son moving to Std 1, I did consider to register him with the other school which is smaller n have only 1 class.
But, my teacher friend strongly encourage me to let him go to the same school with my elder daughter with the reason his sister may look after him, avoid my son of feeling isolated n questioning why he is in different school.
Today, I am glad that I listen to my friend and so lucky to get the understanding of the form teacher.
His form teacher even ask me not to inform other teacher about his differences to avoid discrimination and bias.
Always stay positive, then u gain something positive back.
Good luck n cheers.
Eileen
Dear Nana,
My son is studying in mainstream chinese school. I am staying in Perlis and there are 2 chinese school near to my house.
Before my son moving to Std 1, I did consider to register him with the other school which is smaller n have only 1 class.
But, my teacher friend strongly encourage me to let him go to the same school with my elder daughter with the reason his sister may look after him, avoid my son of feeling isolated n questioning why he is in different school.
Today, I am glad that I listen to my friend and so lucky to get the understanding of the form teacher.
His form teacher even ask me not to inform other teacher about his differences to avoid discrimination and bias.
Always stay positive, then u gain something positive back.
Good luck n cheers.
Eileen
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